When He had called the people to Himself, with His disciples also, He said to them, “Whoever desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. Mark 8:34
Oh, no, the 'take up my cross' thing. This one will bring out the debaters every time it is preached. Does that mean to pound two huge boards together and start dragging that around? One guy did that through the nations of the world, but that was his cross. (Look up the story of Arthur Blessitt to learn more.) We tend to get hung up on that in this verse, but there is so much more for us to do. First there must be a desire to come after Jesus, and that is not a default mode for us by any means. Then that desiring person must deny the self. Whoa, that self is a noisy, needy one. How does one go about shutting that racket down? Then, we get to the cross-taking bit. And by the way, follow Jesus after all of that. Whew! That's a lot to figure out.
Maybe we do not need to debate with each other what taking up our cross means, but instead come in repentant prayer to the One who can lead us down this path He has laid out for us.
The Lord will guide us,
Bucky